Stadem Reunion 2004, in Two Parts



Part I: Stadem Reunion,

July 1-4, 2004,

Bryant Dakotan Article on the Reunion Reprinted in:

Part II, Samtaleren, With Additional Samtaleren News

Part I:


Seventy-eight people, mostly descendants of the late Alfred and Bergit Stadem, gathered for a four-day family reunion at the family farm northwest of Bryant on July 1-4. The largest attendance to date, the number was swelled by family members and vbisitors from Brazil and Mexico. They brought out the implications for mission of this year's theme, "Jesus, Still Lead On", a favorite hymn of Mrs. Stadem, who in 1903 immigrated from Norway at age 17.

One of the Stadem grandchildrfen, Calvin Taylor, formerly of Brazil and now from Knoxville, TN, showed slide pictures of a recent trip to Norway, where he visited relatives on both Bergit's and Alfred's sides of his mother's family. The mission he has represented in both the United States and Brazil, New Tribes Mission, now as an affiliate in Norway, the home of his ancestors.

Highlights of this year's reunion were memorials to two Stadem daughters, one son-in-law, and two nieces, who have died during the past two years. Daughters, Estelle Rangen of Fort Shaw, MT and Ruth Harrington of Sioux Falls, SD, were remembered for their boldness in witnessing of their Christian faith. Mrs. Rangen was remembered for striking up conversations with fellow cancer patients while undergoing treatments together and Mrs. Harrington for giving out "Jesus" stickers and gospel tracts to total stranges in public places.

The Stadem's son-in-law, Hans Spilde, of Sioux Falls, was remembered for a near-death experience he had related to his children that was so beautiful it made his recent death a fearless passage. The Stadem's nieces, Shirley Wellington of Watertown, SD and Hazel Zakariasen of Mesa, AZ, were remembered by their cousins, Pearl Ginther of Puyallup, WA, Cora Taylor of Brazil, Alida Spilde of Sioux Falls,. Leroy Stadem of Sioux Falls,and Maxine Stadem Haugom of Watertown.

The family also gathered for presentations by Dan Templeton on the work in Brazil, by Cora Taylor on the nature and challenges of faith, and by Rennard Svanoe, Stadem grandson, on his work in Mexico. Besides his wife Grace, Mr. Svanoe was joined by Mexican colleagues, Mariano Quitana and Rosaria Zapien, in presenting their work with the Tarahumora Indians of the Copper Canyon area. A 25 cent sale was held by granddaughter, Miriam Rinderknecht, to benefit Cora Taylor's family and their work in Brazil. Cora told of her new home built to accommodate twelve guest families.

Mrs. Rinderknecht also organized a style show utilizing clothing items modeled by the children and youth at the reunion. Modeling and dancing were used to bring out themes of the spiritual significance of colors in the Judeo-Christian tradition. The young people also enjoyed frisbee-golf, fireworks, a go-cart, swimming and campfire sing-alongs.

A discussion on the future of the farm and of family reunions there was held to determine how to proceed after the recent death of owner, Mrs. Harrington. Her wish to have the family continue the 21-year-long tradition will be honored by the new owners, Leroy and Elisabeth Stadem, and their five children, to be named co-owners. Present officers were re-elected for next year.

The family formed a choir for the worship service at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Bryant on Sunday, July 4, and sang a medley of "The Old Rugged Cross" and "Amazing Grace." Dan Templeton played "What a Friend We Have In Jesus" on the musical saw and was joined by his wife, Beth Ann, and children, Dan and Becky, on a song sung in both Portuguese and English, "The Longer I Serve Him, the Sweeter He Grows".

Attendees took a group, as well as individual family pictures, other shots on a compact disk were offered to family members by Russ DelVon Schaefer. Calvin Taylor joined his mother in distributing to each family a copy of a book on how the Bible portrays the gospel from Genesis to Revelation called, "The Stranger on the Road to Emmaus" by John R. Cross.

Meals for this year's event were catered by Mary Ward of Bryant.--end of BRYANT DAKOTAN ARTICLE


Part II:

DISCUSSION OF OWNERSHIP OF THE FARM [this appears to be part of the following section III, the Business Meeting Minutes, but has been published separately ahead of the Minutes. In a now evident rush to change the whole operation of the venue after the homegoings of Bernice, Estelle and Ruth, many things were put in place and implemented.--Ed.]

Lee & Liz Stadem explained the process by which they are now the owners of Plain View Farm. It had not been their desire to own the 11 acre site,but for the immediate future the property will be held in thenames of Lee & Liz and their five children.

The basic annual costs of ownership are:

taxes: $628,

insurance: $400,

water: $360,

and electricity:

$140 and also maintenance in connection with the reunions.

[Note: All these expenses or most could have been given to the caretakers in exchange for rent and maintenance, but present eldest Stadem Pearl Ginther's wise and practical suggestion of a caretaker and family possibly too was not taken, so the farm continued unprotected, neglected for an entire year except for a yearly cleanup and three day reunion. This continued to be the sad and expensive policy until the Stadem couple moved on to homestead in 2018. Was it necessary to do it that way?--Ed.].

Comments: Calvin Taylor asked, "Is the intrinsic value to the five Stadem children and Lee & Liz of this property worth the cost of ownership of the farm and the expenses incurred therein?"

Steve Stadem said, "Take a year to digest this. Think about the ownership of Plain View Farm being in the Stadem names, but the farm would remain open for reunions like in the past. Reunion attendees can continue to help keep up the place with various types of maintenance jobs."

[Ron, belatedly 2019: "Everyone, God has a divine purpose for Plain View Farm. Based on what our grandparents did here in the past, there is a ministry for Plain View Farm we can all share in creating and everyone in our families and the surrounding communities will be greatly blessed. How about it? God is still able!"




The meeting was called to order by Lee Stadem at 1:00 pm on Friday, July 2, 2004 [In retrospect, in my late seventies, and being able to review the records of the last twenty and more years of the farm's operation, I would have wanted to see the business meetings held only on even year reunions so that more of the Stadem Relationship could give input and be a part of the decision making. Even in 2004, a few people seemingly predominated to set the policies for the coming decades, which once set in place tend never to be changed but go on like traditions, whether working out okay or not.--Ed.]

Judy Stadem led the group in prayer. The minutes of the 2003 meeting were read and the report of the treasurer was read. Kari Stadem moved and Allison Lungren seconded that both be approved. Motion carried [according to Sven Swenson"s Rules of Order?--Ed.].

Bills: Lee Stadem submitted a bill for mowing and repairs;

water heater repair $28.58;

Mower repair $100.00;

gas & mowing $72.33;

and mouse poison $6.35,

for a total of $207.56.

Bernie Iserman moved and Curtis Coats seconded that the bills be paid. Motion carried. NOTE: Reimbursement will be made to Lee Stadem for purchasing the Sunday noon catered meal in Watertown.

Holding "every other year" reunions seems to be working for the majority. Those attending during the off years enjoy the relaxing time and opportunity to gather at the farm every year.

Food/Meals: Suggestion for smoother operation were given. Chairs are stored in the building between the Spise Hutte and the Heritage House. As the chairs are not to be left outside, they have to be brought out before and put away after each use. Please request more fruit and veggies from the caterer next year. For the rest of this year, please use servers to dish out the food as we ran out of food at noon [hilarious!--Ed.]

Kari Stadem moved and John Brown seconded that the caterer be encouraged to use more paper rather than Styrofoam products. Motion carried.

Judy Stadem offered to be the caterer for next year's reunion promising to use healthier foods [no hot dogs, no hamburgers, no steaks, no pies, cookies, ice cream, etc.? Another tie with the community is thereby broken, as the Bryant Ward's Store caterer is dropped rather abruptly, which would seem to be a vote of no confidence or inability to work out a menu to suit the younger wives and husbands now in charge. No consultation with the wider Stadem Relationship was considered necessary, and they had no say in this change, which I thought was ill advised, for the reasons given. Judy, who makes excellent salads, could have worked along with the caterer, not supplanted her, and eventually taken over completely, so that there was a healthy assortment of salads and meat dishes, if that was thought a good idea by everyone. By the way, Ward's Store in Bryant lost our yearly catering, which may have led to the decline in revenue that caused the Ward's Store to open a bar, which shared the same building of a small grocery and three motel rooms. Also, did any of the contractors and carpenters present at the meeting question the letting the farm house go unheated years and years now after Tom's passing, with metal siding Tom put on, thinking he and Ruth would retire there, that would later lead to rotting of the underlying former wood exterior?--Ed]. Mary Coats volunteered to help administer this meal program. Steve Stadem moved and John Brown seconded that Judy's offer be accepted. Motion carried.

Date next year: Elisabeth Stadem moved and Naomi Iserman seconded that next year's reunion be held June 24, 25, 26, and 27, Motion carried. It was further suggested that when determining the dates of the 2006 reunion, it should be held on days other than the July 4th weekend, preferably prior to July. [why? the July 4th holiday and days preceding and following are traditional family event days, and wasn't the reunion such? Separating the two events would create hardship and even conflicts in families' attendance at the reunions. It devolved into a work-party only on the off-year reunions.--Ed.]

Projects: John Brown moved that a list be made prioritizing the jobs needed to be done. This list should be printed in the Samtaleren. Then at reunion time workers can be prepared by bringing tools and materials. Steve Stadem seconded. Motion carried. Project manager will be Steve Stadem.

Further suggestions of needed repairs were: 1) Fix the persistent drip in the bathroom; 2) Replace the front tractor tire which is cracked; 3) Install water at the Spise Hutte.

New Barn: A materials list has been prepared for a new barn [the committee took seven years to come up with it.--Ed.]. Perhaps some year we would have a "Barn raising" [the "some year" turned out to be 2010, six years after, and only the foundation and bottom level was laid and framed, with serious building beginning in 2011 and continuing on, with the facility still unfinished in 2019, which makes it a 21 or 22 year project to date--Ed.]. It is also possible that a metal pole barn could be built instead of a copy of the former wood barn.

Thank You: Bonnie Hilt offered to give to the farm two old (but rarely used) ovens which would need to be installed into a cabinet, if such ovens could be used. It was noted that Bonnie Hilt donated the "hand washing sink" unit this year.

Gloria Brown thanked the cleanup crew that labored in the house and the out buildings to make them usable for the reunion. We need to thank and honor the young persons for their work and for using their talents and gifts of this reunion.

Officers: In order to pass around the officer jobs a list of responsibilities or duties for each job needs to be prepared. The 2005 officers will be: President, Pete Stadem, Vice Pres, Steve Stadem, Sec./Treas. Eloise Hefty, and Historian, Rennard Svanoe. At the time of the next large reunion in 2006, the officers shall be: President, John Brown: Vice Pres. & Reunion Manager, Ria Schaefer. These officers were voted upon and approved.

Announcements: Later the whole group pictures and family groups pictures will be taken in front of the Heritage House. Russ Schaefer offered to send a CD Rom of the pictdures he has taken at the reunion to each family in attendance desiring a copy. (Thank You, Del Von!") Mim's Boutique items are on the front porch and are available for 25 cents each. The money collected will be donated to Cora Taylor. Tomorrow six girls will be involved in Liturgical Dance e under the direction of Mim Rinderknecht.

Upon motion by John Brown and second by Gloria Brown the meeting was adjourned. --Eloise Hefty, Secretary



REUNION FUND: Beginning Balance, August 2003----------------------------------------------$701.86

ADJUSTMENT---Overstatement of 2002 Registrations due to NSF check-------------------.- 30.00

INCOME:----------Meal registrations---------------------------------1,631.00


TOTAL INCOME-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------1,701.00

TOTAL EXPENSES-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------$1,807.26

NEW BALANCE, REUNION FUND, August 2004----------------------------------------------------$565.60

FOUNDATION FUND: Beginning Balance, August 2003--------------------------------------------$1.195.26

NEW BALANCE FOUNDATION FUND (Qtr. ending 6-30-04)--------------------------------------$1.196.15



Myron "Mike" Stadem: Death of Another second cousin of Lee & Sisters. Ben and Norman Stadem, brothers of Severt Stadem, were uncles of Mike who had the farm directly south of Plain View Farm, on which the "Buffalo Ring" can be found today. The following is the obituary which was handed out at the funeral:



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